I can deal with minimal amounts of (expected) hair but when shedding requires vacuuming several times every single day, its completely out of control. Even children need boundaries and structure for a happy well loved life. Which I totally dislike because I fear for my baby. Its very unsettling to have someone that puts a pet above you and doesnt know what boundaries are. It doesnt sleep on the sofa or beds and is house trained. I have never controlled how much he drinks and this has become a big argument in our house. But, everything depends on what we are referred to as a Bite.. Im the one who usually cleans the bed sheets. Its a relief that Im not alone, but hard to believe that so many people are going through the same thing. I tried calling no answer, so text her why is your dog here? I remember him telling me this story. Just put your foot down that there will be no more dogs after the current situation. My frustration with my spouse is that he travels frequently and works long hours so he hardly spends time with the dog. I mean, dogs shed. He goes back to the other house he would love them. Love from a non-mongamous creature the same as every other human? and our Ultimately, a dog that isnt bathed, played with, given affection, and taken out to exercise is neglected. and its not like that. I dont mind my dog on my couch or bed. That was a week ago and Im so pleased and relaxed the dog is finally gone but devastated that now Im doing the pregnancy alone, so can totally sympathise with you Hun, sending hugs xxx. Hes out of town for work a lot and I get stuck caring for the little jerk. I brought a cat into the relationship and she brought a French Bulldog. I guess its my fault for pursuing her knowing she had a dog but you cant help who you fall in love with and shes a great person so I cant see myself leaving over a darn animal at times. Absolutely not. Training an animal requires time and investment or you can easily cause more issues. Hahahah. Loving and loyal. I told her that I felt I was doing more with her dog than she was. And then the excuses is, but you know I had dogs! He was nasty to her at times, but I chalked it up to the fact that my dog had a different daddy before him (hahaha). Mind you this is a small dog who has lived in the house his whole life. I totally and 1000% understand where you are coming from! I have a joy and it is rescue animals. We have to take my car everywhere because his is so full of hair. Because it is an animal. Before then we lived in separate homes I had my beautiful and tidy high rise apartment and had no clue whatsoever what could possibly lie ahead. She doesnt bark to let us know she needs to go outside like our other dog. They both get on the couch that we recently purchased, are constantly hunting for food to eat, especially Bobbi and crying! she even comes into the car for whatever we do, everytime he picks me up for anything she will be sitting in the passenger side.. i ask him does she really need to go everywhere with us but he just gets in a mood with me. Trust me. I would advise him to find someone who doesnt let an animals nasty behaviours to come in between your relationship. He wrote me a text saying that he wants a divorce. If the dog is just still a puppy, forgiveness can be given. I love my dog and it hurts me when I see him getting treated this way while I try to treat both of them fair. He does nothing with his dog but cater over it. the male dog also pees constantly in the house when the door to the garden is wide open. Its self humiliation and you ARE worth more than that! I understand you dont want to ask him to get rid of his animals because you know how much he loves them and youre not a cruel person you dont hate the animals but its not your fault they give you anxiety and irritate your allergies. He said that I will always come before the dog and that he will try to make this work. Janet, I live in Germany, so sorry if my gramma isnt so good. I would rather see the dog go to another home. Done! Im tired of fighting over her. She has issues with my family already now this also. He admitted hed never told me he was frightened of them and thought it wouldnt be an issue, despite knowing how much I wanted a dog. I also find myself sleeping alone every night while the dog sleeps with him. He didnt know it, but his wife told him that the couple ordered their dog a burger and had the dog sitting at the table while they fed the dog the burger?? He didnt want to go, because he couldnt miss his babies for 7 days. Someone may like pets, and someone may not. i can understand not wanting the dog in bed. The chewing and pottying and getting in the kitchen table pisses me off. I just begged for her to live and promised that even if she was permanently disabled , I would care for her kindly as long as she lived.For another 3-4 days she was still retarded. All I can say is, poor dogs, My boyfriend of over a year hates my Pomeranian. You will NEVER come first. Your post reminds me of when we first got our dog and I was watching the show Its Me Or The Dog for training tips. This morning I got up and fed the crying baby, as I always do, while my husband sleeps. I know its a hopeless situation because at the end of the day, I love my boyfriend and I do know I want to spend my life with him. I hate feeling so much anger towards an animal. My husband just seems to want me to do the same for him but without giving me anything in return, even a little bit of honesty about how he feels about things that matter to me. I have 2 other dogs and 2 kids here to take care of also. You would assume most dog lovers/owners would treat ALL dogs the same! My ex and I would walk with her bulldogs and people driving by would look and smile. I know this dog means the world to my husband and has helped him get through tough times before he met me. Dog people will try to tell you that you shouldnt mind having your life covered in fur, but folks like you and me arent trying to hear that nonsense. He ran and she chased him. You are prioritizing the dog over boyfriend/husband. He has appeared on his own TV show, been a guest radio expert, gives seminars, publishes a dog related blog, does rescue volunteering, and is active in promoting animal welfare and fair dog laws. If you really want to control this situation, there are a few things you need to be aware of. We recently moved out but only temporarily, we are doing friends a favour and staying in their house until is is sold, as it is for sale. We tried leaving him outside and he destroyed screens plants and the whole 9. These are both 70lb monsters mind you! People dont stick their noses up or will leave if their partner makes a big emotional sacrifice for you. I would never ask my partner to sacrifice something incredibly important to them. (even when walked), one of the dogs constantly tries to steal food from the table and the kitchen counters, goes into my purse, into the trash can in the bathroom, drinks out of the toilet. They also fart constantly and I dont need to smell dog fart while Im eating either! And this is how I feel about my boyfriends pets. This Is so hard and your exactly right about the strange things dog addicts allow! The moment I say something about the behaviors, my wife instantly defends the dog and states that its my fault this dog is like this. If you dont want to even see him because of his dog that he worships, its likely not the guy for you. They must be let outside, fed, played with and walked. I watch the dogs all day when my husband is at work. My girlfriend, not the dog. He has shows aggressiveness to me before as well. Dog lovers can be incredibly obnoxious and many dont hesitate to passively aggressively force others family members of even total strangers to put up with their child, as they refer to the animals. Ive been in a relationship with a dog nut and you get so frustrated because they just dont get it and never will. I went into the relationship not thinking my pets would be a problem,but since he has virtual power over the household, he has decided that they have to go. wow.im shocked to see so many people are having the same problems as meand so many people that just outright hate their partners pets.im in the middle here.i am at my witts end here i dunno what to do anymore maybe talking to people here will help as someone may have sane advice.ive been married to my husband for seven months we dated for a year before marriage.everything was great between us until i moved in with him and his dog.im an animal lover more of a cat person but i love all animals so this is so hard for me.my husband has a four year old pit bull mix that he got as a rescue dog that he has had for four years.the dog was malnourished and abused when hubby saved him i always thought that showed that he was a caring sweet person as an animal lover i respected that about him.i realize the dog was around before myself and my three, continued because my comment submitted before i was done typing..sigh.my husband had this dog before he ever met me i respect that and since i moved in these are just some of the things ive dealt with..firstly the dog is spoiled and has zero training he does not obey anything i say at all if my husband gives the dog a command the dog listens to him but usually only for a few minutes then it will disobey him too.but my husband is gone at work sometimes sixteen hours a day he has a dangerous stressful hard job while hes gone the dog completely and deliberately does things to spite me.when we first got here the dog would not stop trying to mount and hump my baby who is almost two and it wouldnt stop tearing up her diapers all over the place that in itself was very stressful for me i am currently pregnant with our baby the dog is big and hard for me to handle but i manage.i studied dog behavior and have worked with the dog in so mamy ways.ive finally gotten the dog to stop trying to mount my baby and see her as higher up in his pack.when i came to my husband forst with my concernsyour dog is too big for any pregnant woman to have to handle because it does not listen to me ..your dog wont stop trying to assert dominance over my baby and tries to hump herhe just dismessed me like it was no big deal so i studied dog behavior and was able to work with him until he stopped humping my baby.i thought the night mare was over but boy was i wrong.secondly my husband is gone all day as ive said..so the responsibility of his dog falls all on me and my two older children.we feed water pet talk to walk and take care of his dog every day.he does not appreciate it or understand how hard it is for me being pregnant to care for such a large hard headed spoiled dog.the dog is given full run of the house and lays wherever it wants it gets hair every where and constantly licks and chews everything.if we eat around the dog it sits in your face and drools all over your legs until u feed it some of your food or put it in another room.my husband rarely plays with the dog or shows it any attention except at bed time..the dog is allowed to sleep in our bed all over the bed even on me the dog is seventy five pounds and i am a light sleeper.if we put the dog on the floor next to our bed it licks and chews and scratches and whines and keeps me up until i finally say ok come in the bed dog..i would not mind sleeping with the dog sometimes if it just laid at our feet or in one spot but it will move closer and closer until its damn near on top of me smashing my belly or laying on my legs to the point i cant move so i dont sleep well and it makes me cranky..i have a broken foot on top of being pregnant so this is really hard for me.very rarely he will put the dog outside the room and close the door.the dog is not agressive or mean ..just hyper and disobedient and wants to run and play.he playfully started nipping at my almost two year old daughter..if my husband says stop the dog will stop until it gets another chance to try his shenannigans later.if i say no it just keeps right on going.the other day it nipped at my baby i said stop and the dog continued to bear down on my baby.i was horrified.he did not bite to be mean he just wanted to play i get that..but he is bigger than the baby and could seriously hurt her.i forcibly had to pull the dog off of my baby and move him for him to stop.he didnt break the skin but left four red teeth marks on her.then he paws at her trying to get her to play with him but his claws are sharp and sometimes he leaves marks on my baby.i came to my husband saying look i dont want you to think i hate your dog..i love the dog but i love my baby more and he keeps nipping at her and clawing at her i cant handle this anymore it takes alot of stregnth to move him im pregnant i cant be lifting seventy five pounds its not right..either he needs training and to be taught he cannot behave that way or he needs to be re homed to someome who does not have small kids..he just isnt a good fit for a pregnant woman and a toddler.he yelled at the dog for biting and the dog hasnt done it since.but he still paws and scratches at her.every night for a month ive been kept up by this whining licking chewing hell hound he will not stop until he has my spot on the bed then looks at me as if to say haha you cant do shithe is not stupif the dog knows what im saying to himhe knows his behavior is bad and since hes been allowed to do whatever he wants he has been showed he can comtinue the behavior.i find myself resenting the dog and hating my husband.how could you put the safety of your family and your wifes sanity and health of your unborn baby second to a spoiled disobedient animal.ive confronted him nicely..kindly..ive tried to show my husband that this is not acceptable and each time i get told itll be fine stop stressing yourself out over the dog..or just met with outright opposition.i said look its not some joke when the dog really hurts my baby and we have to explain to cps why she has bite marks and have to put the dog down..itll be too late for the baby and the dogi dont want that.i dont hate your dog i just cant deal with him being pregnant its too much he needs training or a new home.ive talked to some of my friends who also have dogs and are animal lovers and each of them has said if it was their dog and it nipped their baby the dog would be gone point blank no buts about itand theyve all said its absurd that im forced to sleep with the dog every night.they all say their dogs do not sleep in the bed at all.ive told my husband thisto show him that im not just being unreasonable that my concerns are valid and its not just me who dosent want to sleep with a dog every night.like i said i dont mind it sleeping with us sometimes..but once in a while i need room to stretch out and silence to get proper sleep im pregnant ffs.two nights ago the dog was on the floor and he kept licking whining and scratching and chewing ..my husband sleeps thru this..i cant ..ive triedi finally said ok come on boy and he laid at my feet for a while..but that wasnt enough for this selfish spoiled beast he kept on and on until he was legit laying on my belly i moved over so that the dog was between usdid i mention we have no sex life because theres always a dog between ustmi sorry.i didnt sleep at all that night i finally got up and went and slept in my older daughters bed with her.last night we were getting along great we watched some tv and hubs said i gota go to bed babe love ui know he has to get up ridiculously early and i didnt wana argue so i calmly and nicely as i could said babe i dodnt sleep at all last night..can we please put the dog out tonightplease.he looked at me and said jesus youre not gonna shut up until i kill my dog..u want me to shoot the dog do you? My boyfriend adopted his dog at over a year old so has never dealt with a puppy, his dog completely disrespects me and wont listen to me at all. if you ignore her she gives a bark for attention and climbs on. The smaller ones can stay fresher longer but if you need to wash them its quick and easy. Dude Im in the same situation its been like this for idk how many months. The dog drives me crazy. They lack human thought and cognitive ability but she trained them to misbehave by rewarding bad behavior. The husband/boyfriend may need to rehome the dog if its interrupting the relationship. At first I said, the dog. I now have to allow one of the dogs to sleep in our bed though she holds it in her arms with her back to me. Which I usually dont. I was so relieved when we moved 3 hours away to stay with other family that doesnt allow dogs. Basically, a life with this man and his dogs will mean not having my own needs met, and being second-place beneath the dogs. But this is sucking the joy out of my life. If you are confident you can please do ahead and try but if he carries on,please believe me,you are better off without your partner full stop. I want out. Hire a trainer: If your husband/boyfriend firmly states get rid of the dog due to this peeing or pooping issue, I highly recommend you invest some money in a dog trainer and perform the training. At one point my partner said his would have to go as our relationship is more important, I didnt feel too good about it as I know my partner loves her, then he waited hoping that I would change my mind, then he said how would I feel if he felt like that towards my dog and recently he has started picking him, possibly tit for tat or to prove a point. His dog will lick and lick me which makes me cringe as I ahte the smell of woof woof. That is how you hate a significant others dog. With 2 dogs, that is just not happening. The dog, 2. Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). This is a new relationship with the girl I am currently dating, so I dont want to throw in the towel just yet. They do poop, pee & throw-up in the house which of course I clean up. Lots of men in the world who love dogs and arent nasty jerks. At the time I met my partner I had 6 rescue dogs. It hasnt even been a month and things have gotten worse. I really like this girl a lot, and I could see myself marrying her. Why was your ex not a good man as youve implied? Once I trained him after s few months, fast forward to 5 years. I have two dogs when I met my boyfriend (now husband). She has this dog that is very poorly trained, basically not trained at all. List could go on forever I cut dog out completely once to unbearable. We do sleep in the same bed, but when she came, she began sleeping in the room with us. My boyfriend actually feels sorry for his dog if she cant get away w this crap. If there is no compromise, there can be no relationship. Jrs r waaaay too unpredictable around children. Then I knew another little personality would enter my life to train, love, and cherish while they were with me. Even said we should sleep separate! Well tonight I was getting in the bed and she was in my spot so I told her to move over, he told me that was her spot and he would rather me sleep on the couch so they could have the bed!!! Not to mention, dont compare them to children like a boy and a girl analogy. But, after several discussion I caved for the husky to be in the living room spring on the couch. We have talked and i told him why but he just doesnt understand why i cant just love her (his dog). Dont underestimate the impact it is having on him, and the quality of time you now get together. Thanks, Nikki. I need advice pls! I say someone who cant stand dog hair isnt a true dog lover. While her parents dont mind watching her dog, especially since he keeps their dog company, they dont like having him for long periods of time because hes just as needy as their dog. I always had a vision of how my life was going to turn out, what my home was going to be like, how it was going to look, smell, etc. This guy sounds ije a jerk. They will let the human go because they can control the dog. The dogs get along great together too. And building a strong relationship with another person requires a tremendous investment of time but can yield tremendous rewards in the long run, rewards that can never be realized with an animal. Cant wear anything dark or I have fur on it. Today there is dog bakeries, day cares. I dont even like touching dogs. Absolutely the worst decision I have ever made to try to share my home with this thing that has absolutely NO RULES whatsoever for how it behaves. Im tired of it. You are both digging in your heels and being adamant. If one makes it a human and the other as a pet animal it will never work. I cant imagine letting an animal destroy my home. I cant relax in the lounge room because of dog flatulence and I am frowned upon for commenting about the smell. I also have to watch them when hes out of town which is several times a year. I cant remember a time I havent had a pet before my last dog of 13 years passed. I have to be at work by 8am, Steve only works at 10am. Dont get me wrong, I DO enjoy animals and their company and I have had a small dog for many years before all this! Quite high and mighty of you to push your own agenda of what you consider to be normal. On these dog nuts. Simply because it was how you were raised yet by nature humans are in no way monogamous creatures and thus we are not bound by our instincts to stay together. I mean granted its a dog vs partner. He said if he stayed up to watch TV, the dog would bark at him to come to bed. Now the puppy is 100% potty trained and I feel like we were on the right track but my husband said he wants both of them gone yesterday (that will never happen). Its pretty clear to us outsiders that the man has a severely dysfunctional relationship with his animals. Let me be clear he picked out the dog, it was his idea, and he was very emotional about it. Get away from these animals as fast as possible. I dont get to sleep with my boyfriend and I rarely get to cuddle him or get any love or attention from him because all he ever does is cuddles or hug or kiss the dog. Did I leave my husband for a dog that he chose? A part of me feels like I know that this dog means so much more to him. I have two daughters, 13 & 11. Go out and shoot him?!? When you do your relationship with your dog and SO will be alot more successful. But since we brought her home, I have had doubts and regretted it. I have owned and loved pets all my life, as part of my family, but they never usurped my human family members. i even know of instances when couples had a kid that they were raised that the dog is their older brother or sister !! You have to find conpromise. He Wont Get Rid Of His Dog, Should I Break Up With Him? Follow his advice 100% clearly if you really need to keep the dog. My husband and I are separated. That was 7 years ago. If I argue with him that he needs to take care of these dogs he will just promise to help and will help out for one day then quit. What should i do? Human loyalty isnt malleable, but it is breakable. She allows no kissing during this time. It wasnt worth the argument because theyll never get it. Human loyalty is as malleable as clay and frankly I find it pathetic that so many people turn their noses up at these facts because they refuse to acknowledge that were basically ticking biological machines such as they are. When Fido dies in 10 years, what have they left? This isnt acceptable behavior by the one that is suppose to make you feel loved, trusted, and safe Confused. im just not sure i can make it till hes no longer in the picture. In the end, it didnt work and we broke up recently. Nope getting a dog made her darker and I cant live like this. So I tell her she was very rude and selfish for leaving me with the dog and that I wasnt going to care for it and she needed to find someone who was going to. There were so many other examples, but I believe this gives you a good idea of the hell I was living. Im also making a change myself and I told him that he needs to be patient and let us both adapt but his negativity is really starting too exceed the limits of my patience. Discuss with your veterinarian about his diet if its too expensive and look for alternatives. The kids are starting to resent her and the fact is that this is taking a huge toll on our marriage. They lick him all over the face and its just nasty!! Thankfully, we live somewhere else and we cant have them, but the time will come that we will get our own place and I dont want those dogs! Ok I get that, so I tell him where an ear plug that way we can address the barking together more effectivly. I actually love our dogs. Not to mention she always gets in the way. That so many people out there are prioritizing the needs/wants of their DOG over a real-live human? Its hard to throw a marriage away because of this, only you will know whats best for you. Im glad Im not the only one who feels this way about a dog. Either train this dog for its own benefit as well as Ours or one of us goes and thats so crazy to me when Im only asking to have a normal human bed dinner table and living area. She is wrong to suggest someone who isnt capable of living on his own have a pet to help him. Overtime I thought I started liking and loving the pet and that it was growing on me. My boyfriend has a pit bull she is a nice dog. That makes me wonder that this might not be the right guy for me. Thanks for positive feedback anyone and negative feedback thank you as well. I hope it works out for you! He wants her to sleep in the bed with us but she wakes me up every night pulling my cover so I get up and sleep on the couch. her reasoning? I love my husband, he is a fantastic man, in every way. The way she treats her dog is how she approaches life in general with no boundaries. Puzzle toys. I tell him she was with me before we met, he hates her because my ex got her for me. He's allowed to be Continue Reading 31 Kevin Mcelroy Author has 4.8K answers and 1.4M answer views 2 y The thing Ive learned is that there has to be some give with the take. No, I really did not have a clue! She has about 7 years left of her life so this is a very big commitment. Should you have gotten the dog without consulting him? She says if I do so she will leave me. He got a Yorkie I didnt want. Id say if he leaves: good riddance!! People so often posit their relationships with their pets on nothing beyond feel good feelings they get from the pet being fully dependent upon them, when they would never accept that type of arrangement with another human being. He hates her he says, he says she is a stupid dog and cant wait until she dies. For the first months after we moved, he would sometimes say that he misses his dogs, even saying that he would still sleep with his dogs whenever we would have them, despite him knowing I cant sleep and dont want to be in a dirty bed. My counselor believed it had to do with him having trust issues many years before I came along. What does a woman want? My boyfriend and I recently moved in together and with that said, I acquired his seven year old Jack Russell female. I dont know. Once we moved her out of there, his dog began barking all night so we had to fix a pen in the garage for him (he still barks ALL night). 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